After spending a whole night awake, this subject came to me, considering a woman I used to work with who was so mean-spirited. I went through a great deal because of her, yet I found forgiveness for her and a little nugget of encouragement for myself.
So, what causes mean-spiritedness? The number one answer is RESENTMENT! When you resent someone so much that you can not let it go or forgive, your heart space will suffer, and sooner or later, it will all spill out of your mouth to anyone and everyone! So this is about dealing with it! Another cause is a lack of forgiveness. Sometimes, as humans, we tend to desire to hold onto our grudges just a bit longer, and if we wait too long, we become as mean and grouchy as they come! The bottom line is that everyone requires working on themselves. Change always starts with YOU and not those who have offended you! How you deal with yourself is more important than getting back at others or pointing the finger at them. I want to highlight some main bullet points to go with my video on the same subject. If you find yourself holding a grudge:
>>Talk it out with someone you trust who has much wisdom to lend to you.
>>Journal to help you discover or uncover the internal hurts in your heart that mean-spirited remarks tend to attach to, causing more heartbreak.
>>Speak out of your mouth forgiveness, grace, mercy, and healing. Send those who offend you love and light, and then leave it alone!
>>When you discover your weak or broken spots that might attract meanness in others, pull it out by the roots and allow yourself to cry it out, get upset, get angry, get honest, and get balanced again! You owe it to yourself and your life to do the work. The bottom line is you must do the work!
>>Receive Universal Reconciliation! You can say out loud: ” I receive Universal reconciliation for this situation.” Name the situation!
>>Bless the lives of others with your mouth. These blessings will never be returned to you void! Never return evil for evil. You will heap up bad karma that you will have to deal with at another time.
>>Be good to yourself, love yourself, and heal. If you need help with healing, you can connect with a spiritual coach, counselor, or someone who provides energy healing or healing hypnosis.
>>Remember, we live in a world that has a lot of upset people and difficult things going on. Dedicate yourself to becoming a part of the solution and not a part of the problem! Humanity will thank you for this!
Watch my video on mean-spiritedness here:
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Loving you from here,
Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry
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