Knowing When to Heal Internally

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I’ve often discussed we are like transmitters that send out information over the spiritual airwaves. In the same respect, we are also like mirrors who show others a good look at themselves when they look at us. We can shine back at someone and show their light or respond when they lash out and show them their wounds. We come together for this purpose. Couples mirror one another often. When one does or says something mean to the other, their injury is imposing on the other.

Most of the time, the unhealed are tempted to take someone’s lashing out personally. It can be, but honestly, it is not. People always spill out their wounds onto others. Or they will help us process our own when we choose to react instead of search our hearts to find where we need to heal. An individual can always know when they heal internal wounds when nothing seems to affect them much anymore. Don’t mistake this for the hardness of heart. It is more like a coming of age from the inside out. It is a transformation that reveals we have grown, healed, and are happy within ourselves.

When growth is being tempted during these moments, remember we have the roots of unholy messes all bottled up inside of us. Many of us don’t even realize it because we are too busy blaming someone else. Life begs us to take a good look at ourselves. It is our responsibility to heal from the inside out and is for our own sake.

Realize we all have “stuff.” There are no exceptions. If you spend less time trying to judge others, feeling hurt by others,  and getting angry, you will have time to settle into yourself and discover where you need to heal. Bringing out those issues can come either willingly, or God will send a messenger that you attract to help do that for you! You can choose either one way or the other.

If you want good relationships, start one with yourself. Learn to love yourself enough to heal. Learn to accept you have flaws like everyone else and work on your wounds. You will know you have completed the work to heal when people don’t seem to rub you the wrong way any longer.  When your injuries no longer affect you, your responses will no longer bring you anxiety or anger. You will finally have come to yourself and stepped into your power!

Loving you from here,

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry, PhD.


Soul Scars and How to Deal With Them

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Our bodies are amazing creations. God sure knew what He was doing when He created us! We are so equipped to handle the most difficult situations. When our physical bodies are wounded, everything in our bodies will go to the rescue like a knight in shining armor. Blood and cells rush to the scene of any wound and will clot the area to keep us from bleeding out. Later a scar forms over the wound. The greater the wound the deeper and thicker the scar.

Our soul goes through the same type of situation when we are hurt or emotionally wounded. Only we are the ones who go to the rescue and cover the wound with our smiles, coverings, and dealing with every day life. Unfortunately we leave the wound and scar inside of us. This effects us every day of our lives. Our emotional wounds will even affect our energy centers, physical capabilities, physical health, and block us spiritually. Do you see how important it is to deal with our wounds? Time to get real and truthful with ourselves so we can heal. This way we stop the lack in our lives from the wound and we stop spilling out over others because of it.

Inner wounds also keep us from growing up inside. It does not matter what age we are, we act immature when the scars are there and not dealt with. The Light of God can illuminate our wounds through revelation when we seek to find out what they are and ask how we can deal with them. Only exposure can open up the scar, release the wound and allow us to heal, grow, and move on to more productive lives. Here is a video explaining some of the process. There are many ways we can deal with soul scars but going to God is a great start in the process! Enjoy and be well!

If you need someone, please don’t hesitate to ask for either a session with me or you can ask for ministry. Call 832-484-8306. I would be happy to help you deal with those inner wounds that hold you back from living your best life ever!

Blessings and loving you from here,

Dr Rev Jenine Marie Howry, PhD

Jenine Marie Coaching and Ministries LLC

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“A well healed life is a life well lived” Dr Jenine Marie