Drawing the Best Relationships

This morning I was thinking about relationships and how we get into messes where we connect with those who seem to bring out the worst parts of us. The things we do for love, right? We make choices based on things that have nothing to do with compatibility and settle for the connections that are more connected to our wounds and heart scars. Connecting through scars will help heal them if you are conscious and aware enough to see the bigger picture as to why you respond the way you do to how others treat you.

There is an easier way, although it takes a little treasure hunting to get the job done the right way. The very best relationships are those that seem to be energetically “sent to us” in a way where they connect to the very best parts of us. Whereas we can always stay as positive as possible and live in gratitude, there is no way to ignore the inner landscape that has to be trimmed and pruned first before the relationship magnet blesses us.

No doubt, positivity, and gratitude will shift your life very quickly if you practice daily through meditation and affirmation. Yet, the wounds will remain if not addressed on a personal level and processed. Ignoring they live inside of you will not do the trick. You will still attract according to who you are and not necessarily what you want in another person or people. Without inner assessment and healing, you can be assured you will end up doing relationships the hard way. Your wounds will test you. There will be upset feelings, angry nights, and a whole lot of other disconnects where you would rather be connected.

You are not hoping for a personal relationship? Just so you know; no person is an island. We all should desire to connect with others. To leave that void in your life would do you a great disservice. I get it, we all love alone time, but at the end of the day, our lives are a lot less worth the ride without someone else to take the ride with us.

Healing a broken heart can be a difficult prospect, but you will either do it on your own or do it through your relationships. Your choices are connected to you by your internal landscape. You can choose to keep breaking your heart by making choices out of your wounds but it’s not the more pleasant route to go. I’m just going to make a suggestion here. Be grateful for where you are. Love yourself as you are, but take the time to heal what you are and become who you desire to be. Only then will you attract according to the healed self, instead of the wounded self.

Life does not have to be so hard and you don’t have to be lonely in your relationship. Be good to yourself and be fulfilled with the relationship you have with yourself. It will all pay off in the long run. Guaranteed!

Loving you from here,

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry

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