As we navigate through the complexities of relationships, it’s essential to recognize that God sometimes removes people from our lives to protect us from harm. This divine intervention can stem from a variety of reasons, but a common theme is that not everyone we encounter truly has our best interests at heart. The Bible offers numerous examples of God orchestrating circumstances for our benefit, teaching us that divine love often comes in the form of difficult choices, including removing negative influences.
One poignant example of this can be found in the story of Abraham. When God called him to leave his homeland, God’s spirit instructed Abraham to separate from his family. This act was not born out of unloving sentiments but rather a divine necessity for Abraham’s calling. Genesis 12:1 states, “The Lord said to Abram, ‘Go from your country, your people and your father’s household to the land I will show you.'” Here, God emphasizes the importance of separation for Abraham to fulfill his divine purpose.
Furthermore, we see how Job, a man of great faith, faced immense trials, including the loss of friendships and family members. In Job 1:20-21, upon receiving the news of his losses, Job responded by worshipping God, saying, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” This illustrates that while people may be removed from our lives, God ultimately has a plan that exceeds our understanding.
God’s protection is echoed in Psalms, particularly Psalm 34:19, which reminds us, “The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all.” This verse reaffirms that God is actively involved in our lives, and when He removes specific individuals, it serves to protect our hearts and our spiritual journey. It also reminds us that difficult moments can lead to greater deliverance and empowerment in our lives.
Another striking instance is when Jesus spoke about the cost of discipleship. In Luke 14:26, He declared, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple.” This challenging statement underscores that following God may require a separation from even our closest relationships for the sake of greater spiritual alignment and purpose.
The Apostle Paul also experienced shifts in relationships due to God’s guidance. In 2 Timothy 4:10-11, he acknowledges that Demas deserted him, “because he loved this world.” This reflects how some relationships can be detrimental when people’s hearts are not aligned with God’s will, necessitating separations for the sake of one’s mission and calling.
The theme of God removing those who do not support our journey is further illustrated in 1 Corinthians 15:33: “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.'” Here, we learn that surrounding ourselves with people whose hearts are not attuned to God can hinder our growth. God’s removal of negative influences is not just an act of protection, but a divine strategy for our spiritual maturity and success.
Additionally, in the story of Moses, God selected specific individuals to accompany him and removed others, reaffirming the notion that not everyone is suited for the journey God has laid before us. Exodus 3:10 reveals God’s directive to Moses to lead God’s captive people out of Egypt, highlighting the importance of recognizing who is called to support us in fulfilling God’s purpose.
Lastly, God’s love is exemplified in His desire for us to flourish in healthy environments. Philippians 4:7 offers a reminder of the peace God provides, stating, “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” This verse emphasizes that when we experience loss or separation, God’s peace envelops us, reassuring us that His protection is paramount.
In conclusion, God’s careful orchestration of relationships or their absence is an essential part of His plan for us. As we reflect on these examples, let us remain open to spiritual guidance, trusting that God knows what is best for our lives, even when it means letting go of certain relationships.
In love and in light,
Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry
***It is clear that God has a persona, God is “spirit” and has no gender, even where there are areas of the Bible that give God gender. The New Testament states that God is a spirit, and those who worship must worship in spirit and in truth. Consider that “we” give God a persona, and without us, there is no expression of God on earth.
References
The Holy Bible, New International Version. (n.d.).
The Holy Bible, English Standard Version. (n.d.).
The Holy Bible, New King James Version. (n.d.).
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