Healing Can Be as Simple as Expressing Yourself

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When I receive calls from a client, it is often needed to simply voice their issues. Sometimes it is about heartbreak or something from the past that hurt them a great deal. Many want to know if someone they around care about them. My first response to that is, “Have you asked them?” Usually, they are afraid to ask because they have been hurt and rejected so much.

Rejection is one of the biggest roadblocks to communicating with others and offering our voices to heal the wounds that inflicted us. So many are afraid to step out again and honestly tell someone what is deeply felt. When our voices are held back either by fear or an overbearing person, we become stopped up inside like a drain that won’t flow. The blockage will create blockages also in our energy centers. Eventually, this will affect our physical health as well.

Our voices and emotions behind our expressions have been created in us for a reason. It is not only about talking with others but also about healing our hearts and soul scars. Without a voice, these inner wounds will fester and create blockages in our lives. Believe it or not, more people are held back in life simply because of the soul scars and wounds that energetically keep them closed off from what they truly want.

To get to the bottom line, it takes communication; it takes a voice! When we consider exercise, we either use it or lose it. It is the same thing with our expressions and communication. We need to use our voices or lose out on opportunities to make new choices and realize our dreams. When we neglect to voice our opinions, ideas, and hurts, we stop the life force flow from our lives.

Why are so many of us afraid to speak our minds? Most of the time, it is about not wanting that sore spot within hurt again. Sometimes it is about rejection, but another reason is the sense of judgment or failure. It all boils down to perceiving a loss of our self-esteem and self-worth. Sometimes we think we will be laughed at. Interestingly, many very successful people were humiliated and laughed at over and over again. At some point, they had to have thrown up their hands and chose not to care about it so much.

Sooner or later, we all need to face our fears. Opportunities will arise over and over to give us that chance to do just that! If you neglect your voice because of fears or false perceptions, maybe it is time to express yourself and move on. Healing only comes with opening a wound to air it out. It’s time, honey. Do it today!

Loving you from here,

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry, Ph.D.


What Voice Are YOU Listening To?


listen-to-the-spirit21Have you ever come to a point where you have looked around and found that your life has spun out of control? Life can be a challenge, that’s for sure! Although, we can be the victim of other peoples free will choices, usually our lives are a mess because we have become sloppy in the way we have taken care of them. At first it can be very subtle. Maybe we stop spending as much time listening to God and what He wants and going by other voices. It’s easy to listen to what “sounds good” instead of what IS good for us. A lot of things in this world sound good but they are so far away from what we need or even deserve.

Being led by the wrong voices and therefore making the wrong choices in our lives can create more chaos than we can even imagine. In the book of Ezekiel, God makes reference to “empty vision and flattering divination“. Divination is a means of seeking knowledge from occult type resources. This practice can be quite destructive and the consequences quite devastating. It’s very subtle at first, but eventually we find ourselves sitting in darkness feeling like there is no way out. Divination and seeking through the occult can be a very interesting supernatural lure that leads us down the road that is very far from God and His blessing. The enemy of your soul would love to draw you away from God who wants to bless you through His love and grace! The enemy (Satan) hates you because he hates God and anything that belongs to Him. He will try to give you visions of power and supernatural flattery.Sometimes its not even an intentional seeking but for some reason we are being lured by ways that appeal to us but are not God’s best for us. Don’t be deceived! It is a lure into chaos and misery!

God has much better plans for us! He LOVES us and will always lead us the right way by performing His word as faithful as He always is. His greatest joy is to lead us lovingly back to Himself so He can bless us with His best.daily-image-031313

Much of the time He will allow us to get ourselves into a mess through our own free will choices so we will look to Him, but when we do His promise is miraculous! He wants us to make the right choices so He can bless us with his grace. God is not a punishing God but a gracious one. He never leaves us nor does He ever forsake us. We remove ourselves from Him, sometimes willfully through our actions. Sometimes things happen to us because of the actions of others or the consequences of living in a difficult world. Either way, God will deliver us from the effects of those things if we turn to Him!

Look at what He says to the rebellious nation of Israel in Ezekiel 12: (23-25).

“The days draw near as well as the fulfillment of every vision.  For there will no longer be any false and empty vision or flattering divination within the house of Israel.  For I the Lord will speak, and whatever word I speak will be accomplished. It will no longer be delayed, for in your days, O rebellious house, I will speak the word and I will fulfill it,” says the Lord God.’”

God promises us the truth and will deliver us from every false vision or voice. He will lead His people down the paths of rest and restoration. His guidance is loving and always profits our soul. There will be a day when every vision of God is fulfilled. He has promised, even in the midst of rebellion.

Whatever you do today, listen for God’s voice instead of false voices of the spirit world. We already have a very exciting, loving, supernatural God! What more could we want. His blessings lead to and abundant life and salvation. Trust Him! Read His word, pray in His presence and praise Him for all that He is! Your life will still go through bumpy roads but He will be there to help you drive!

Pastor Jenine Marie Howry

Jenine Marie Coaching

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