When a chosen woman of God sheds her tears, those drops are not simply fleeting moments of sorrow; they are sacred offerings that the heavens meticulously count. In Psalms 56:8 (NIV), it is written, “Record my misery; list my tears on your scroll—are they not in your record?” This scripture underscores the profound truth that God is attentive to every tear, viewing them as precious reminders of faith, hope, and the trials endured. Those who catalyze these tears often face a reckoning, as the Scriptures forthrightly declare, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows” (Galatians 6:7, NIV). Thus, the anguish imposed upon a chosen woman may come back to the source, revealing God’s justice in a world often clouded by unfairness.
When someone dares to break the heart of a woman chosen by God, they unknowingly unleash a force of unparalleled strength. Her heartbreak transforms into intercession—a relentless prayer warrior arises, fueled by divine purpose. Through her tears, she becomes fervent in prayer, calling upon the heavens with the authority of heaven itself. James 5:16 (NIV) highlights the power of a righteous person’s prayer, akin to a force that can “make a powerful impact.” It is in her vulnerability that she discovers an unshakeable strength, fortified by her connection to the divine.
As she taps into this sacred energy, the chosen woman moves heaven and earth on behalf of others, her intercessory prayers carrying weight and urgency. In the book of Esther, we witness a profound example of a chosen woman who interceded for her people, navigating danger with courage and fervor. In this same vein, today’s chosen women can wield their pain as a weapon against darkness, transforming sorrow into a wellspring of resilience that inspires those around them.
Indeed, the pain forged through betrayal catalyzes an extraordinary metamorphosis. As her tears flow, they become spiritual fertilizer, nurturing her faith and strengthening her resolve. Isaiah 40:31 (NIV) reassures us, “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles.” The once-fragile heart, now brimming with divine purpose, can tackle challenges with renewed vigor, showcasing a power refined in the fires of adversity.
In this divine transformation, God does not merely allow her to endure the repercussions of others’ actions; He elevates her above them. As she surrenders her pain to Him, she becomes a beacon of hope and strength. She is reminiscent of Hannah, who, despite her heartbreak, rose to greatness as the mother of the prophet Samuel. Her cries and prayers not only changed her circumstances but also had ripple effects on her community and future generations.
The depth of her character deepens as she learns to embrace the journey and find purpose in her pain. In Matthew 5:4 (NIV), we read, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” What begins as mourning can evolve into a profound calling, where her tribulations lead to a deeper connection with God and a powerful testimony for others. Her anguish transforms not into a chain that binds her but rather wings that allow her to soar.
Through her journey, she learns that her worth and her calling aren’t defined by the pain inflicted by others. God, seeing her as a masterpiece in progress, empowers her to rise above the difficulties. She is reassured that her past heartaches contribute to an orchestra of triumph and resilience that testifies to God’s goodness. Romans 8:28 (NIV) encapsulates this beautifully, affirming, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
As she emerges stronger from her trials, she finds herself equipped with a unique ability to empathize and connect with others facing similar struggles. Her tears, once a symbol of sadness, become a wellspring of strength and wisdom. She walks in an anointing that allows her to lift others, interceding with an unwavering spirit. Her heartbreak gives her a platform to inspire more women, validating their stories and empowering them to embrace their identities as mighty warriors of faith.
Ultimately, a chosen woman, in the face of heartbreak and tears, allows God’s grace to empower her. As her eyes dry, her spirit radiates with renewed strength. Ephesians 6:10 (NIV) encourages us, “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.” This strength does not represent a mere return to her former self; it represents an evolution—a testament to her journey of faith, resilience, and the unwavering love that God has for those who earnestly seek Him.
On behalf of all brokenness, God’s chosen women shall rise, stronger, greater, and with more determination than before. Like the phoenix, she will arise from the ashes others have created for her, and no one will keep down whom God has chosen as His own.
To the woman who has fallen, your intercession will move heaven and earth, and all of hell will crumble at the sound of God’s voice when your tears have been captured, held, and spilled out.
Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry
Life Lessons by Jenine Marie 