If it Was Real Love Would They Have Left?

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I listened on the phone to a woman who was sobbing as she expressed her fear and pain. I’m an empath, so I could feel the pain in my chest as she tried to settle down long enough to even talk. Her life had fallen apart in one instant. Little did she know, it had been falling apart for some time. She was just not informed of it. When it all finally hit the fan, her husband she had been married to all of her adult life had told her he was leaving her for another woman. In fact, he had been seeing the woman for awhile.

They had been together through raising children, buying a home, planning for retirement, and family vacations. They fought battles when the kids rebelled against them, prayed while they were sick, held one another through unexpected funerals and celebrated every joyous event. Now all of that became a blur as she vented her feelings to me with tears rolling down her cheeks. I had invited her out for breakfast the following day; her heart was so broken she could hardly fix herself meals.

I wondered how someone went from being involved in the life they built with another, to starting all over later in life. It was mentioned he stayed for the sake of the children. I think its a very noble reason to stay, don’t you? Giving children a good life is wonderful and they deserve the best from both parents. The only part the husband had left out was he was planning to leave without his wife’s knowledge. She was hit like a ton of bricks with the news.

Her children were all off living their adult lives, and her husband was packing his bags. On top of it all, the house would have to be sold during the divorce so she was going to have to leave the home she spent over 25 years putting together. She kept asking me why he could possibly do such a thing? I can’t say how this happened but what blurted out was, “If he truly loved you as a husband loves his wife, he never would leave.”

They had many years together, building and creating a family. I can’t completely believe he had no love for her at all. What I can say is someone who truly loves another might have moments of reconsideration during arguments or hard issues, but the idea of living without the other never really enters into the mind of one who loves without conditions. The woman continued to sob and tell her story. I realized it was himself he was not loving. His actions had very little to do with her or lack of love for her. It was a lack of love for himself that guided his decisions at that time.

It’s hard to understand this, but we reflect in our lives the feelings we have within ourselves. We display our inadequate feelings and wounds by the decisions we make a long the way. When our lives go unhealed, and wounds unattended to, we create a mixed up mess.

She made it through her ordeal. In fact, she did better than she ever imagined, just taking one step at a time. He, on the other hand was stuck in yet one more relationship he wanted out of, not realizing the person he had left was himself.

We do ourselves a great disservice by leaving our inner wounds unattended. This does mean we need to dig a bit into the past and let our voices express the pain and sorrow created through our interactions with others.  We owe it to ourselves and others to heal from the inside out. Otherwise we make decisions out of the lens of the holes in our hearts instead of making them how of wholeness. Make a decision today to heal the hurts from the inside out. Your life and those around you will thank you!

Loving you from here,

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry, Ph. D

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My first personal interest in yoga was when I was about 18 years old. I needed my yoga practice to offset my already busy work schedule. I needed energy, flexibility, stress reduction, and just plain old time to myself! Can you relate to this? As time went on, my yoga practice came and went according to my filling schedule. I had a renewed interest when children came along. The first thing I wanted was to be back into my nice work clothes, not to mention my jeans!

During a very stressful marriage break up, yoga became an anchor for me. My mind, body, and spirit needed the practice to keep balanced when my emotional footing was not as stable as I would have liked it to be. I have to admit my practice still was off and on as time seemed to constrain…

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Universal Law-The Law of Reciprocity and Living and Gratitude

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God created our universe to be faithful! Universal law will never fail you! All you need to do is know what they are and how they work. Then work on them in your life! You can literally create anything you desire.

This segment, and part of a series, is on the Universal Law of Reciprocity and having an attitude of gratitude. Find out what this amazing law can do for you and how you can use it to change your life!

Live your life with knowledge, understanding, and creativity. Your life can turn around from any difficult situation. You only need to know how to do it!

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Every time I go online lately, it seems there is a new product endorsement or trend. Influencers are everywhere, from cosmetics to clothing to skincare and more! Honestly, I think it is fantastic and so much more entertaining than old ads flying into our faces. I love watching a good product demo by a real person!

Another trend that I am embracing even more is herbal, aromatherapy, or natural products. As I begin to get older, my focus is on quality and the purity of what goes in my body and on my body. As I was searching for some affiliate programs, I came across Herbal Dynamics Beauty! I am so pleased to have found this company!

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Dr. Rev. Jenine is known for her sweet sense of humor, accurate guidance and ability to hone in on uncommon wisdom. She has spent a lifetime educating herself and exploring fields that many do not associate with counseling and guiding professions. She is a strong believer in the body, mind, spirit connection of the human being. She works with a high degree of ethics and efficiency.

Dr. Jenine Marie loves to study the wisdom of the ancients, explore the uncommon and bring in every aspect of healing possible for her clients and customers. She has a strong world view of humanity, believes in Oneness between us all and reflects this belief in all she accomplishes professionally.

Jenine loves working with the Law of Attraction, Universal Law, God Presence, and spiritual connections to help co-create the best in life for herself and clients. She is a long time energy master with…

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Meet Dr. Jenine Marie

Dr. Rev. Jenine is known for her sweet sense of humor, accurate guidance and ability to hone in on uncommon wisdom. She has spent a lifetime educating herself and exploring fields that many do not associate with counseling and guiding professions. She is a strong believer in the body, mind, spirit connection of the human being. She works with a high degree of ethics and efficiency.

Dr. Jenine Marie loves to study the wisdom of the ancients, explore the uncommon and bring in every aspect of healing possible for her clients and customers. She has a strong world view of humanity, believes in Oneness between us all and reflects this belief in all she accomplishes professionally.

Jenine loves working with the Law of Attraction, Universal Law, God Presence, Hypnosis, Meditation and spiritual connections to help co-create the best in life for herself and clients. She is a long time energy master with clear-seeing into the bodies and imbalances of those she works to assist.

Dr. Jenine works diligently to uplift, advance, and empower the lives of those within her wide scope of influence. She identifies as a life advancement and empowerment coach, hypnotherapist, certified metaphysician and energy master. Within her disciplines she includes her natural gifts of empathy, intuitive guidance, clear vision and the still small voice of God-Presence.

In her personal life she has raised five beautiful children, two of whom are in heavenly realms. Although a native of California, she now lives in the great state of Texas which she has come to love. Her hobbies are growing her own herbs, creating essential oil and candles, sewing, reading, writing, and manifesting the best possible in her life and the lives of those she loves dearly.

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry has taken a more broad spectrum approach to life guidance and wholeness; therefore she does not operate as a licensed clinical therapist. She has spent over 30 years in study of life’s issues and how to quickly and efficiently resolve them. She has also held a passion to join couples in the bonds of marriage and has married too many to count over the years!

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie’s degrees, associations and certifications are:

Degrees: BA-liberal arts, psychology major, BA-Christian counseling, MA- Theology, MA-Metaphysical Thought, Ph.D. Transpersonal Counseling

Certifications: Life Coaching, Metaphysical Practitioner, Reiki Master, Chios Master, Law of Attraction/Universal Law Coaching, Hypnotherapist

Associations: International Metaphysical Ministry, American Alliance of Hypnotists, American Association of Metaphysical Doctors, International Association of Reiki Professionals

Take a Holy Moment to Meditate on What is Important for You to Know

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On my YouTube channel we have been talking about the Law of Attraction, Universal Law and manifesting things in our lives. There are so many things we might feel is important to us at any given time. Do you truly know what you really desire in life? Have you taken the time to spend one holy moment with just yourself and get clear as to who you are and what you truly want? Now is the opportunity to do that! Check out this video to help you along.

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She Wanted Grapes, So She Built an Arbor: Manifesting Your Dreams (copyright 3/2/21 Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry, Ph.D.)

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Close your eyes for a moment and meditate on what you really want in life. This might take some time for you, but it is worth the time! Consider what truly makes your heart sing. You will recognize the special thing you dream of because it will bring a smile to your face and an enlarged space in your heart area. Stay fixed in the expanded heart feeling. When you feel love extending outward, you are in the space of manifesting your dreams.

We manifest with thought, emotion, and creativity. This is not a strange philosophy, nor is it a part of religion. Manifesting and creating is a part of your natural abilities your Creator gave to you from the beginning. There might be situations where you have manifested in your life, but not even realized it. If you can manifest areas of your life naturally, you can also do the same thing intentionally. You were born for creating!

I gave this post the title, “She Wanted Grapes, so She Built an Arbor,” because it hints at the foundations needed to get what you want in life. Building a foundation is very easy once you know how. Books upon books have been written on subjects such as the law of attraction and manifesting. I have read many of them! Honestly, I have found some effortless ways that manifesting and creating can happen.

First, you need to create and plant the arbor. Creating the arbor means you will build a foundation where you will be sure to manifest your result.

Here are some simple foundational elements:

Discover what you truly want in life; what makes your heart sing. It might take some deep consideration but don’t worry if many things pop up! Find the one that stands out to you the most, and start there. There is no limit to manifesting and planting new seeds toward whatever you dream about for your life!

Learn to meditate and visualize the full result of your creation. Draw the love and energy you feel when you see your full manifestation! This might be joy, happiness, love, energy, vitality, or fulfillment. Let yourself go with it and feel away! Your emotion will draw your creation closer to you and put it at the forefront of your life.

Look for synchronicities that support your creative process. The concept of synchronicity was first related to us by psychologist Carl Jung. Synchronicity is happening when situations or clues reveal themselves to you that are connected to your dream or creation. For instance, if you are manifesting a blue car of a specific type, you might see that car everywhere all of a sudden. The vehicle has meaning to you because of your dream and meditative visualization. Although that blue car is not connected to you, personally, it is a signal that your manifestation is working.

Meaningful events might also occur to guide you. These might be words that come out of someone’s mouth which seem spontaneous or out of the blue. Yet, the individual’s words have meaning when met with the dream you visualize in your meditative time.

Then ACT! Take actions that are revealed to you concerning your creation! The action part is vital. We are partners with our Creator, the universe, and the powers that be! Being a full partner means inviting all power given by God to create in your life. Being a full partner also means doing your part and taking the steps needed to construct your new arbor. Construction has steps, takes patience and time. Keep looking at the grapes! I don’t literally mean grapes, of course. What I mean is the end of the process, your dream!

Loving you from here!

Dr. Rev. Jenine Marie Howry, Ph.D.

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